Tuesday, October 30, 2012

Universal Integration


Community is the Answer. But the most Common Mis-Understanding out there, is that the Community will just come together naturally out of the unconscious pairings of the peoples wants and needs, with the other peoples resources, and their resources, with the other peoples needs. And this does make sense.

But it may well be that the community does not actually come together, as most people would expect, by simply matching wants and needs with resources both ways, as it would be using barter and exchange.

If we have had that wrong, then maybe that is why we don't have more communities popping up everywhere.

The needs are out there. But they don't seem to fit together, and so the barter system may not work. Why don't you think they hardly ever fit together into the full blown community that simply spreads worldwide into one big happy family? Because these needs don't add up to anything of value. Those are deficiencies. And the Contributions may dissipate very quickly without a completely non-permissive system, which will protect those resources, from being exploited by the forces of need and greed. And that is what this Blog is about.

The few times that wants and needs and wishes and fantasies and desires and resources do add up, might be the exception, not the rule.

That may be what drives the world of Business, and the Global Economy, but it is not what drives the EcoSystem, and it is not what drives the Economic EcoSystem of the Community.

What really brings the community together, and holds it together, in my opinion, is to ask all the interested people to connect up, with the center, like the spokes on a wheel, connect the rim of the wheel, with a central ideology, which is like the Hub of the Wheel, which could be something like Universal Integration.

And then each person will be expected to be working towards that, within their own interpretation, in their own way, and using their own skills and resources. And then all these communities may all connect up, in the same way. All Rights Reserved.

Those who would like to join us at Earth Council Embassy, in Northern California, will have agree to work 3 hours a week for the community, as well as volunteering to work as a Gardener 3 hours a week, in order to serve in the production of food for ourselves, and for the other hungry folks in the local community.

We will be expecting a contribution of Thirty Five Dollars a Week, to go towards the Land Maintenance Fund. We do have a few beautiful acres to share, and a desire to be of service, but it is still very rough living, and so we only have an opening, for one very resourceful and resilient person, who has read the entirety of this blog, and is a True Believer, who is looking for a way to be of some service. Leave your In Depth Comments if you are interested, with your personal info.  - T

Thursday, October 11, 2012

Respect for Women


Bullying is something that just happens, when there are no consequences, as in the pointlessly permissive world, from which they may have come. If you follow the bullying, in school, for instance, you will see that nothing happens, to the bullies, which they will ever deeply regret, simply because of our weak school system, which has no backbone.

This is partly because of the leniency that has been insisted upon. That is part of the problem, because it enables the bullying, and this is possible, because in most cases there is no real community.

There is simply a disorganized town, or a neighborhood. There is nothing like an integrated community there that lives for itself, and has all the time in the world to deal with these issues. These People are not organized, they have no time, and they are not known, and so they are not integrated, and so they are not capable of doing anything. Most of these Communities of Today are not Integrated along the natural lines of Tribal Community. And that is what we need to get back to.

What would it mean to be integrated? That would mean that each person would be attached, as members, to various circles of other people, in interlocking relationships that are meaningful, not just random. You get paid to bring something up, just like it would be in small claims court, where you get paid if you win. These are the consequences that we need to put in place.

If someone does you some material damage, then they have to pay for that. And if someone does grievous damage to your person, or tries to systematically destroy you, or ruin your life, then they will have to pay some kind of damage for that as well, just as it would be, if they hit your car, and bent the metal. They would be liable. You would be honored to take up the issue, instead of being ashamed, as it is now, and it would behoove you to do so, since you would be able to collect on that.

Why would the other people come? The Same Reason they Come to Dinner. To Eat. The other members of the Community may have nothing else to do, and they are naturally hungry, and they might even get off on it too, in some way, like people who both need to eat, and like to eat. It feeds itself. People can learn from it. And it Behooves them. They get something out of it.

In the Family, we see these little things as learning opportunities. Ward Cleaver would sit the Beave down, and explain why it would bother his Mother, June Cleaver, to hear that he had lifted up a girls dress, just to see what color her underwear was, just so he could show the other boys, that he was daring and bold, and then they could laugh about it, at her expense. And so Shame is used, instead of Punishment, to control the boy, who may feel the need to prove that he is daring and bold, which we support, but that has to be done in the right way.

The Beave would normally be deeply ashamed to tell his Mother what he had done, for fear of her disappointment and her stern rebuke, and that she would be personally offended, and deeply hurt.

He might not care about the School Teacher, or the Principle, or the Cops. But if he has been raised right, he will be under his Mothers Thumb, emotionally, as a Boy who has been properly raised, since birth, to fear this kind of social inshamity, if you will, as he is not just to be loved and spoiled to death, by the women, or by one or two overly permissive parents, who are not inserting the right material, because they have no way of getting anything out of it. And so that may need to be addressed.

He does not want to disappoint her in any way, such as to hear that he had been disrespectful towards any Womans feminine sanctity, or especially to have violated any Girls appointed special privileges, to be treated differently, for fear that she will take it personally, as a sign of disrespect for her own Sanctity, as a Woman, who was once a Girl, who might have had similar experiences.

A Mothers Sanctity, as a Woman, is something that should be Sacred, to any normal Boy. And that would be why he would not want to treat any Girl in a dishonorable manner, which is the issue of the day.

But this has to be inserted in there, as a writ of loyalty, at an early age, or it may not even be there.

And the same thing is true about his relationship, with his Father, only in a slightly different way, which should be even more powerful, to the point where he would be deeply afraid of his Fathers Rebuke, because the Boy has to have been given a clear duty, to Defend the Girls Honor, as if she was his Mothers Daughter, and his Fathers Daughter, and so not to join in, with those, who would offend her, for Fear of his Mothers Disappointment, and for Fear of His Fathers Rebuke, which is an entirely different thing, from his Mothers Disappointment, in her sons shameless lack of respect for Women, but both of which would be like a debt, which would have to be paid off, which could be very difficult to do, and the price might be very steep to pay.

But in Most of these People of Today, neither one may stand for much, since they were not raised in the community, and since they were not raised right, in any other place, and so there really is no shame, in the neighborhood, any more than there is shame in prison, since they were not raised right, in the first place, and so this shamelessly corrupted disease which is Prison Gang Culture spreads through the land.

But if the Big Brother is a bully towards the little brother, then why shouldn't he have to pay for that? And who is to decide, when the bullying has stopped, or when the debt has been paid?

The Victim. That is the Answer. He or She must be conferred with.

This gives the Victim some Power, as he will have some input, into when the debt has been paid off, and when the offender, has basically become an adequately changed person. And so the others will check back with the Victims, long after the judgement, to see if the Bullying has stopped, and if respect has been re-instated, and honor maintained

These same principles can be used to apply to Abusive Behaviors in Prisons as well, where there are lots of people hanging around, with nothing but time on their hands, and not only the inmates, but the prison goons as well, and so a game could be created, which these inmates could play, after these goons have been educated, allowing the non gang members to find a way to get through the wall of gang member dominion, and in this way overcoming the abusers, in the interests of setting up a New Platform for Justice within our Prisons, first, which could very quickly begin to operate like communities, when there is an incentive to take action, and to speak out, because you get paid for that, in various forms of benefits, and that means there has to be some kind of a reward built into the shame game, because in a perfect world the unlearned people would be controlled by shame and not by punishment.

And that means that there is to be some kind of credit given, in respect, or power, and in renewed consideration, or higher social status, for those who will take a chance, and stick their necks out for others, or for themselves, and so they stand to gain something, in restitution power, and in vindication power, where their honor, and their power, which had been stolen and their integrity which had been denied, and blocked, has to be returned to them. All Rights Reserved.

- T McC

This is all part of a whole new thing called Organic-Integration. And yes there is a new yahoo group by the same name.

Join the Conversation. But all must speak with Spirit. We are not just to react to what has been said. Who can add something real to what it is that we are building here. Because yes, we are the Builders.

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