Thursday, November 3, 2011

Building a Resilient Community

Real Leaders are real people who have developed their own real new ideas, and they may even have to introduce some New Concepts, and create some New Terms, as we have seen here, which are not always popular to hear about, and so they do need to be explained in some depth, and these groups are very good for that, whereas emotional outbursts of raging disregard are generally not very good here, because of the limitations of email.

There is a lot of work involved in getting ones newly created ideas down into a stream of words, and a lot of these people who can only react from their emotions, are going to have to sit this one out, if they are just not willing to use their heads and to do the work involved. Much will not ever be explained. But that does not mean they have any right to go on a destructive rampage, because that is your responsibility, to ask, and to accept no for an answer, is part of that.

Character Assassination is way out of line, in an email group, and especially when that is used for nothing but to save ones own sorry backside. Bring Peace. Be Grace.

One thing that some of the New Community Organizers get a lot is the way that if you correct someones thinking like this, or lay out some of the parameters, then they will go into the vengeance at all cost mode, like you dropped a big bad one on them, and so now they are going to have to get revenge.

This is not because they are dirty rotten people, who have just been identified as such, for the whole world to see, and to know, of their worthlessness, as dishonest deceivers of the first order, but it may well be received as such, because of their almost endless ego pride, and their unspoiled arrogance.

They are going to have to get revenge, because they are living in a Zero Sum Game, against the Community, and against the World, and against the Organizer, and this is how they deal with their enemies out there in the dog eat dog world, that if they allow someone elses words to stand, unchallenged, that there will be no freebies, then they lose, on two counts, because they had to back down, and didn't get to win the argument, on nothing but entitlements, and then they didn't get the freebies that were expected.

These peoples levels of self entitlement, for nothing, may have to be readjusted down a few pegs, and they might even be sent back out to the wood pile to stack some wood, until they have cooled off, while the others may get to engage further, with the creation and the refinement of all these richly rewarding new ideas, that all add up to something, which they could not have accomplished, after having to apologize, of course, because yes, the thoroughly progressive mind work, as a designer and a refiner, or as deeply intertwined collaborators, and as a hard working determinator, if not as a judge, who may even have the honor of serving on the Tribal Council, is a lot harder work than they could ever afford to even begin to have to pay for, so why not accept this work as my gift.

I do all this work for the peoples Love, believe it or not, instead of a lot of empty flatteries, so don't offer me anything less. Expect the Best, and Forget the Rest.

There will be some of these self made victims of their own disgrace, for the most part, who will want to push for a hostile takeover, or to enforce a false doctrine, or to build a group of anti-power over on us, using the mass mind politics of premature war pathing, which is the same thing, in some instances, as a grave injustice, to reverse the order of the connections, on the wiring diagram, which is a way of hacking into, and sabotaging the system, which is the EcoSystem, to get what they want first, by forcing the issue, at the expense of all the others, who are not guilty of anything, and it is a violation, when it has been forced upon us, prematurely, as a community, in all of our innocence, and so there is an order here, and it might even be stolen, or broken up, by the use of force, and even violence, which can be done, with votes as well as clubs, which they will often use, to destroy, from a consumerized amalgamation, of personal likes and dislikes, which can be exploited among the short term thinkers, who are quite content to extract resources, in their search for freebies, which have not yet been earned, and that is why all these empty promises must be dealt with, as empty promises, not because they never meant it, as sometimes they really do intend to come through for us big time, but because they are as yet unfulfilled, and so they cannot be cashed in on, just yet, very much like when you have just deposited a check in your account, and then they have to tell you that that money is still not yet available for you to use just yet, and so if you want to gut your account all the way down as far as it will go, which is why so many people are underwater right now, then you will have to wait a couple of days, for that check to go through the system, because as yet it is just a nice little promise, but they have not yet fully actualized that money yet.

This is how careful we have to be when dealing, with all these promises, and requests that are based on those promises, which we must be able to deny the premature pay-ability of, even while at the same time we are sometimes hoping for the best, and for them to come through on these promises, many of which are well enough intentioned, and most of which should come through, which is when they will become payable, but we cannot pay off on that until they have become completed promises, which alone can be "Put on the table", as only good food, which has been blessed, and which is truly fit to eat, can be "put on the table", long after it has been produced, harvested, and prepared, and has been blessed.

We are expecting all the new people to make some kind of an effort to show some kind of preliminary respect for this community, as a non-judgmental community, except for T, who is the Organizer, who is the only full time worker we have, unless we should choose to select some other judges, as it may be that T is not always available.

We can only hope we can choose a few good people to be judges, who can explain their judgments, intellectually, through the use of ideas, without resorting to emotional outbursts, or lashing out, in raging contempt for authority, which is one of the first things we must all be willing to look at, as a psychological defect, which will require a diagnosis, and treatment, just to see, if that person is deemed to be a desirable new member of this community, and that has to do with good things offered, to the leadership, and to the community, first, with some showing of at least a nominal levels of respectful gratitude, meaning that they are keeping the faith and assuming the best, even if some bad things come out, from some other people, like some groundless accusations, which they could latch onto, and join into, and they could even hope to cash in on that problem, by magnifying that problem, instead of being part of the solution, just in order to form personal alliances, which can be used against their enemies, in this premature struggle for power, but we expect them not to latch on to anything, but the Truth, and then you hang on to that for dear life.

We are all here to learn, that we had it wrong.

The question is not whether a persons diagnosis can be tolerated by the community, according to Karen Winter, but whether they really are a good fit.

We insist upon asking the new people to talk only about ideas here, and not to dump their reactionary thoughts and opinions, and they are certainly not to pronounce judgment here.

New ideas, from others, are always welcome, but not to cash in on that, by robbing someone else.

New people always want the situation to be that we are starting from scratch, and don't have any ideas, which leaves a big opening for them, to take a freebie, without giving a lifetimes work.

We want all the others to help us to build, with new ideas, but they must connect up in a compatible manner, so it is a good idea to build on what has already been built.

What the average american quite often thinks, quite erroneously, is that "they", whoever that is, always want you to be good, in school, in the church, in obeying the law, and in the importance of getting a good education, and in short, to conform to "their" drug program. But the real secret is that we will all have to be willing to join in as one of "us", before we can all begin to join the Tribe.

What we are doing is actually Beyond All Comprehension, for some of these new people, that what we are building is Beyond Society.  

What I have initiated here, is not about dragging a lot of strange new  people, into a beautifully well designed community, where they do not yet belong, and who may not even speak the language, which is the Universal Language of Truth, and what is True, and interesting, is one thing we really should be talking about here, and not what people need to feel good about it.

Making people feel good, by being nice to them all the time, could even be considered by some to be a way of servicing an old addiction to an old reality.

I do expect to be Loved and Honored, for this Bold New Initiative, which I have launched, called the Unified Field Theory of Universal Integration, which should come as some relief, to those who are hungry for the Truth, about the New Reality, and putting Truth First, above all else, is a whole new approach.

I think I have been very clear about all that.

But let us deal, with one little question here:

"you are ... scaring the crap out of me"

What that means is that the Restoration of Truth, Scares the Crap out of some of the new people, who have not yet been trained, and who do not want to have to bother to do anything to qualify.

They expect us to be nice to them, and to service their addictions, but they are not willing to be nice to us first. That is a double offense.

Let us argue, here in this group, about real ideas, of our own, hand hewn material, which we have created, but let us use honest arguments, which we are to use, for learning, and not burning.

Let us work towards the creation of a mutual understanding, but let us leave the personal politics of manipulating peoples needs, out of it, including all manner of Character Assassination, which is particularly offensive, on the first post of one of the newbies, which is punishable by fines, but no one will be hung for just one minor indiscretion, but we do have to have recognize the natural unit of order her, where you do have to have standing, before you can become demanding, in order that we might have some small measure of justice, which can only follow from falling into the Universal Order, like the Natural Order of Priorities, and the Honor System, which have been laid out, for starters, and Domain Theory, which is still yet to come.

And then maybe peace will follow, after all this hard work has been done, which has been given on my part, as one of the Truth Carriers, to expose it all, and on the part of others, it is to accept it all, as a valid form of thought, or at least to come to terms with it, as being within my rights, to shape the Universe, as I may choose, even if you don't all yet agree with it, and then to work with it, in collaboration, and to support, and to protect the leadership, from all manner of personal attacks, as we have seen demonstrated by D+P, who have earned a significant place of honor here, as such, for being faithful, and true, and who have remained loyal to the cause, at some great personal expense, in time and trouble, which we should all be grateful for, even if we do not agree with them both, so thanks to those two, who have shown us that we really do have the full support of our peers, and those in the other communities, and I think we can expect many more, from the other communities, to cross over the bridge, into the New Reality, which has been called for, since ancient times, when T was young, and has now been laid out for all to see, and now that time has come, for the people to express their deepest something or other if not their heartfelt thanks, so we will expect all others to follow the way that has been laid out for the whole world to follow, and not just to spit and spew, in their self satisfied wallow, of niceness addiction.

Those old school social niceties really are what some people really do think are the core values of this community, when we have gone Beyond the Old School Niceties.

For them that old stuff is what they came here for, where everyone else would have to play nice, with them, while they rob us blind, since they are not to be obligated, not as the customers, who are expected to have no responsibilities, not in any way, and certainly not to have to play nicey nicey with us first, which would be humiliating for them to have to show a desire to display deep faithfulness, and courage, which would be required, to get into any kind of relationship, that you do have to cross over that painful bridge, of shame and humiliation, and to ask humbly, if you can have something, like inclusion, which you haven't earned, like to be loved and included, among strangers, who have never met you.

Don't you think that would take some doing on your part?

It usually does, unless you are one of the privileged few, who doesn't ever have to try, and doesn't ever have to make the first move, to show that they really care, and to show how much they are willing to do, just to help to make this project a reality, while asking nothing in return.

Many Blessings. I really do love all you fine folks.  - T

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